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So, when do you take a look at what your needs are and realize that they aren't met? When do you weigh commitment higher than sexual indulgence? My partners have all acknowledged. In fact, the refrain I keep hearing -- or sometimes overhearing when they're talking to friends -- is that I'm "like a dude when it comes to sex.
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