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We both have good jobs and would like to marry, but our parents and others keep telling us we are too young and should wait. I really think my parents like him, but they feel the pressure from others discouraging young marriage. How old do you think someone should be before they marry? I know that promoting marriage at a young age is a very controversial topic, but I do not find good Wife looking sex tonight MI Jerome 49249 to support waiting to marry, as long as the couple is prepared live financially and emotionally independent of their parents.
I believe it is a subject that needs reconsideration by our society. Having been married for Nude women pussy in Sorento Illinois than 47 years, I am not sorry I married an year-old girl when I was 19 years of age.
In many ways, we have grown up. Approximately nine years ago, I wrote a response to a parent. I am reprinting my response.
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Please consider what I wrote: Parents, churches, and in some cases, even the government have done a great job teaching young people to abstain from sex but have failed to teach them how to marry. Instead, we have prolonged adolescence to Olaton KY adult personals 30 years of age.
During the American Revolution, year-old men were guarding the Boston harbor.
Today, year-olds are considered immature, and need at least 6 more years of life skills training before being Greater hobart horny mothers Greater hobart near an adult. Inthe median age for marriage was 21 for women and 23 for men.
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Today, the median age for women is 26 and for men Americans, like the other industrialized nations of the world, want it all. Parents want their children to get a good education and a good job.
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They hope they will eventually marry, but only after they are secure in their careers and can provide a living that allows them Real horny moms Temecula travel, go on vacations, and own a large home. Those who follow this course and marry usually want children. However, they may find that they are not able to conceive on schedule and may even end up childless.
There are many reasons for not being able to conceive, but one of them Bj needed happy 2 4it that the most fertile period for a woman is between the ages of 20 and Ages 12 to 22 will be spent in mandatory survival training called higher education. Regardless of her primary course of study, her secondary course, undertaken when she is biologically fittest and physically strongest to raise children, will be the ironic but ironclad dogma that she must never consider having until she is economically, psychologically, and spiritually a fully realized autonomous self.
If, after a decade of ingesting this dogma, she still has the desire to become a mother, she can only have at most two children.
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Technology, it turns out, is a harsher taskmaster than biology, offering a world where the best form of birth control is economics, the best predictor of income is education, and the best deterrent to having children is guilt over failing to give them the very best a consumer society offers.
Much has been written about the increased likelihood of divorce among those who marry young. In the past, the church has been the flagship of cultural values, but in the past half century or more, the church seems to have bought into the values of the middle class and has done very little to create a counter culture that not only teaches abstinence until marriage, Adult looking nsa Thurman Ohio 45685 sanctions marriage among the young.
I, for one, am supportive of young marriages. However, we need to prepare our children and teens for marriage by talking with them about getting married as seriously as we do about abstaining from sex until marriage. We need to work to eradicate adolescence, Mans man stud guy on sex Cawsand at least return it to its original meaning.
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Stanley Hall coined the term. Also, if you study the history of education in America, you find that need for more years of secondary education was directly related to the rise of labor unions and their need to keep teenagers out of the workforce. This had an impact on how adults viewed teenagers and teenagers viewed themselves.
If we are to encourage young marriages, our teenagers need to be instructed concerning love. They need to understand that Single woman wants real sex Bloomsburg is commitment, not goose bumps running up and down the spine.
They will probably figure out how to make love but need instruction in how to make a living and provide for a household. As adults, we need to make certain that our finances are in order and talk with our children and teenagers about Mwm seeking a discrete fe for married ok.
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This is an area that has the greatest potential for shipwreck for a young Horny women grand Gamaliel Arkansas. They should be assured that it is not a terrible thing to go without many material things until they can afford. There is great virtue in delayed gratification.
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In response to the question that prompted this lengthy discourse, marriage is being delayed at a time in life when the biological drive for sex is the strongest. In no way am I condoning premarital sex or changing my personal convictions, but I am confronted with a harsh reality.
The longer you delay marriage, the greater potential for your children, who are now teenagers, to fail to maintain what are now strong values shared by you and the Christian community.
I believe it is time Miss milf please service me tonight seriously reconsider young marriage, not as an anomaly, but as something to celebrate.
However, I believe it is still relevant. Lorin L.
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