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That transition can work. But it's challenging. We're still friends.

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I'm not in love with my best friend, I respectfully disagree, and I think you are especially in love with the imaginaryness of the relationship.

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And if you have a friendship that can survive this change, odds are better that it can survive other changes. If you get married, or if one of you gets sick, or moves, or has a career change, maybe you'll be more confident about weathering those changes because you weathered this one. These aren't exactly the thing you want. And they don't take away the grief that you're currently going.

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I had to mourn that because it felt like a death. I still feel sad about it. This person was my one person from 18 to about It was ificant loss in my life. But I'm married now, and my husband is the most important person in my life, and I wouldn't change. I guess what I'm saying is: things change, and it happens to all of us. Casual dating santa local girls down to fuck hotel elevator that we thought would stay the same forever fall apart.

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I also agree with others that you need to allow yourself to change with it. Maybe there's something in there for you. She's pretty much the only person I talk to outside my family and coworkers Your fault. Your friend is not a magical unicorn who defied spacetime to puncture your bubble with her rainbow horn.

You, just you, steadfastly refuse to make yourself emotionally vulnerable to other people. That's your problem, not her unique strength.

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